HAD to link to this list, because it is all true! I did not have a c-section so those (luckily) don’t apply to me. But everything else is spot on or really, really, really close. Some of these were very timely to read.
Favorite quote to summarize her list:
Dear moms and expecting moms and future moms — please hear this last little tidbit and chew it up and let it sink right into your bones: my mothering mantra is not, “I am a perfect mom.” That would be ridiculous and unattainable and depressing. But my mothering mantra is, “I am the perfect mom for my kids.” And guess what? You are too. You’re the perfect mom for your kids and don’t ever let yourself think otherwise — not even for a moment. You’ve got this mom gig.
Find the list here: http://adrielbooker.com/pregnancy-birth-first-time-mom